May 18, 2025

I will be covering and writing about Senate Bill 180 in the coming editions. While I don’t belief Boss Collins was the only reason why this bill is now sitting on the governor’s desk, he is one of the reasons. The bill if signed will roll back any land use and code changes to August of 2024.

That means everything that Collins and his Politburo did since last August would be void. It was a tremendous waste of taxpayer dollars that continues with their other hare brained schemes. There is no getting around the fact that many meetings and hundreds of staff hours were wasted costing thousands of dollars.

The three, Collins, Giobbi, and Reed, are ignorant of the law and their responsibilities as elected officials. Their actions will take years to be erased from the minds of our Federal and state partners in Washington and Tallahassee. Perhaps they should spend some time learning about the business they signed up for before attempting to change things.

This week I recall an evening I had with Jimmy Breslin in an old Irish bar nearly fifty years ago. I hope you enjoy it.  We have all our great columnists plus the news of Martin County.

We have Dr. Michele who explains fluoride. Frank Valente from the  Humane Society. David Hafner on the 4-H and our ag scene, Bill West on business, Andy Noble on government, and John Gonzalez on the current state of Martin County real estate.

So, settle back, have another cup of coffee, and read the above and so much more.

Have a great Sunday Morning!

In 1978 I was the campaign manager for my college friend’s New York State Assembly race in Queens.

This was before the internet and before social media. The path to move voters in your direction was through newspapers, endorsements, and clubhouses. The best way, however, was knocking on doors. Our assembly district in Queens ran through parts of Astoria, Sunnyside, Woodside, Jackson Heights, a piece of Corona, and College Point. There were a lot of doors.

Jackson Heights was a changing neighborhood from predominantly Irish to Hispanic. My friend moved into the district to specifically run for the seat. Since graduating from college, he had been a congressional staffer, a staff member for the President of the City Council, and he even had a job for Ethel Kennedy at one point.

While in college, we had been involved in a couple of campaigns together. We were not political neophytes.

Usually after an evening of knocking on doors, we would end up in some diner or pub for dinner. One night at about 9, he went home tired, so I went to an Irish pub on Northern Blvd in Jackson Heights to grab a hamburger and a beer. Who was at the bar but the late great columnist Jimmy Breslin.

This part of Jackson Heights had already changed from Irish to Columbian. But one of the last businesses to close was an Irish bar. It serviced the holdouts in their rent control apartments that weren’t going anywhere. Jimmy didn’t even live in the neighborhood, so why was he there? I never had that question answered.

By then Breslin in his fifties, was the picture of the hard drinking newspaperman who spent most off hours bending his arm. I think at the time he was working for the Daily News. His specialty was writing about the New York White working class, politicians, and criminals. About a decade earlier, he was savagely beaten by wise guys for a column he wrote about an East New York Luchese family captain. Breslin filed a complaint but no one was ever prosecuted.

I enjoyed reading him. I was just like one of his subjects. His book entitled “The Gang That Couldn’t Shoot Straight” was already a classic. And besides, wouldn’t it be great if I could get him to write about my candidate.

There was no one sitting around him at the bar. Two or three couples were in booths finishing up dinner or just drinking. There were a few bar flies nursing their beers and drinks at the far end of the bar. I sat down, several stools from Breslin, and ordered a Harp and a burger. 

I told the bartender to put his next drink on my tab. When he got his whiskey, he tipped the glass to me, and I took the opportunity to slide down to a stool next to him. As we spoke, I mentioned Frank, my Irish American candidate. Jimmy had run for city council president a decade earlier on a ticket with Norman Mailer for mayor. He was no stranger to Catholic ethnic pols.

I could see he was already two sheets to the wind working on his third. Breslin was nasty, sardonic, and bellicose at the same time. I knew many guys like that. Men that were Saturday night drunks followed by Sunday morning mass attendees.

Like most of his generation, getting into fights was not to be shied away from. Breslin had taken many punches throughout his lifetime and would continue to do so. A black eye was a sign of dignity.

He meandered all over the place with his conversation. By that time I had bought several drinks for him. I knew I had him when he finally bought a round.

Sometime closer to dawn than midnight, we left. I was feeling very little pain. Jimmy could barely stand up.

I hailed a cab, and he got in promising to call me to do an interview with my candidate. I was pleased with myself. I then decided to leave my car and do the same for the ride home to Flushing.

Not surprisingly in the sobriety of daylight, I never heard from Breslin. Nor did I ever run into him at that bar or anywhere else. If I had, Jimmy would never have remembered me anyway. I was a fan and he was a legend.

Lonnie Bee Smalls III will miss a real life while serving his consecutive four life terms and an additional 30 years in prison.

What is more fitting for a wanton murderer with complete disregard for the lives of others? It was a fate he was destined to achieve from an early age. Why did he end up that way as opposed to being a kid from the same neighborhood who becomes a teacher or even a cop?

Being dressed in his orange jail garb and chained at the waist and wrists was probably no big thing for him. At 21 he will have plenty of experience wearing unflattering clothes and chains in the years to come. It was something that Smalls was already used to. And that is the shame.

Real “trigger men” would never use a machine gun to go after their intended victims. Not because they have qualms about killing but because they know chaos could be trouble. They would go up to the car and put a couple of .22 bullets into their intended victim’s brain. There is something to be said for professionals, even hitters.

With those guys doing the job, Mattie Jones, the mother, grandmother, and great grandmother would have continued eating her Thanksgiving dinner and watching TV. She would still be alive. Of course, on the other side of the coin the intended victim, her sister, and boyfriend all in the car would have died. A worse or better outcome is difficult to say. 

In my scenario the judge could have then ordered the killer’s execution because all three deaths plus the intended victim’s fetus would have died. I don’t know whether the car victims were all part of the “criminal” life or not. We do know that Mattie Jones was not.

Smalls to me received a fate worse than death. He will spend the rest of his life in prison. At 21, that is a long life.

Pete Rose has had some level of redemption. The redemption came too late for Rose to know having died last year.

When I was a kid, the Mets played Cincinnati in a double header on Labor Day. I remember attending several of those double headers. Pete was in his prime and the New York Mets were good at losing.

Spending a day at the ballpark was both inexpensive and a way to see the game that appeared differently than it did on TV. For four bucks, you could be there from 1 until 7 p.m. on double-header days. A day of summer joy as you prepared to be back at school in a few days.

There is no doubt that Rose was a victim as well as a villain. Today, you can bet on not only the game but the next pitch right from your couch or the stands. Back then, you laid down your action before you entered the ballpark.

Rose not only bet on baseball, but he also bet on his own team. That is and should be a no-no even today. What you can’t take away from was Rose’s natural ability on the field. We shouldn’t conflate the two.

We have had doping scandals, drug use, and earlier betting scandals going back to the dawn of Major League Baseball. Then we had Rose. A guy that should never have been kept out of the Hall of Fame. 

There was no doubt that during our war of independence from England, we needed help from rich friends.

King Louis XVI of France filled the bill during that period. His government provided gold, arms, men, ships, and expertise to the colonials. Without France’s help, we probably would not have won our independence.

The individual states called their own shots. The Continental Congress was unable to do much but write letters and give feeble instructions to General Washington. That was 250 years ago.

Since then, we have become the richest and most powerful nation on earth at any time in history. We have a dominant aircraft industry with very few competitors. We make both military and civilian planes for nations all over the world including the tiny rich country of Qutar. President Trump announced a deal for that country to buy a 160 Boeings for their airline.

But the more things change, the more they stay the same. Qutar just offered the president a gift of a 747 to be used as Air Force One. There is currently a new one being built by Boeing to the government’s specifications, but it is behind delivery schedule. The delay probably due to the United States demanding specific specifications for the plane.

We all know the president likes how things look on the outside. If it has gold and marble finishes, Trump is all in. The proposed gift of a $400 million plane will serve for Trump’s use while president and then be deeded over to his library after he leaves office. He promises he will not use it himself.

News reports estimate that the gifted Air Force One would have to be torn apart to make sure there are no bugs or plants of any sort. It would need to be retrofitted at a cost of about a billion dollars to allow it to serve as the “Flying White House” in times where it would not be safe for the president to be on the ground. Remember 911 when President Bush was kept in the air because there was not adequate intelligence available to permit him to be safely on the ground?

What that lesson should teach any future president is that the comfort and showy parts are the least important of the POTUS plane. It is a flying bunker, and a command-and-control center for the smooth operation of the government wherever the president is.

News reports have stated that the Qatari government has been trying to unload the plane since 2020. There are costs associated with the maintenance and upkeep of the jet. Apparently, the interior is not the preferred style of most wealthy people’s taste.

If we forget about everything else is this what the United States has become? A country that needs a gift of a plane from a despotic nation which has been offered to buy the good will of the president. That is not friendship but bribery.

Presidents don’t make business deals…they carry out policies. Jets being sold by Boeing to Quater should be helped by our government and the government negotiator doesn’t receive a tip. Foreign governments buying crypto currency from the president’s family company is corruption…not statesmanship.

Air Force One is not a Trump building but a necessary government piece of equipment with a purpose to serve the nation…not the personal whims of Trump. It has taken us 250 years to go from a democracy to an autocracy much like the reign of George III. Congress has utterly decided that it has no function in spite of the power given to the institution by the Constitution.

Trump apparently never heard the adage that not everything that glitters is gold. And every bribe taken is a step away from the b

What a time to be alive when food is so readily available that we often take it for granted. That means one thing: Our farmers and ranchers are really good at doing their jobs.

In this country food is readily available at the grocery store, through the drive-thru, and delivered right to our doorsteps. With food being so accessible it is easy to forget that each bite of bread, sip of milk, or cut of meat is the result of months of planned work by farmers and ranchers, processors and packers, and the large infrastructure of food sales and delivery services. Our dependable, abundant food supply does not just exist. It exists due to the daily dedication, planning, and grit of those who grow, raise, and deliver it.

Raising food begins long before seeds go into the ground and the animals are born. Farmers carefully plan their operations around the seasons, the climate, and the continually changing market. Crop growers analyze their soil health, select seeds suited for their region, plan nutrient applications, and manage pest threats, often months in advance of seeds going into the ground. Livestock producers track genetics, nutrition, herd health, and habitat conditions year-round. Nothing is left to chance.

Beyond all that, farmers work with a volatile mix of challenges like rising input costs, labor shortages, and policy shifts. Despite all of these, they push forward, driven by their purpose and passion to feed others. They work long hours, early mornings, late nights, and weekends, not just during planting and harvest seasons, but year-round. During the “off-season,” farmers are repairing equipment, planning next year’s crops, and tending to the animals that never give a day off.

Once food leaves the farm, it enters a complex web of processors, haulers, inspectors, and retailers. Processing facilities must meet strict food safety regulations. Truck drivers transport products across the country within tight timeframes. Inspectors and quality control experts ensure the food that reaches your table is safe, nutritious, and properly labeled. All of this happens so seamlessly we never have to stop to think about how it all came together.

So next time you sit down to eat, take a moment to appreciate the unseen network of people behind your meal. Remember that your food didn’t come from a store, it came from a farmer. Reliable food does not happen by luck. It is the product of tireless effort, careful planning, and a deep-rooted commitment to feeding others.

Supporting our farmers and ranchers means recognizing their value, respecting the work they do, and staying informed about from where our food comes. They have earned that appreciation, one early morning, muddy boot, and long harvest day at a time. And we owe it to ourselves to enjoy knowing our food’s story.

David Hafner’s opinions are his own and may not reflect Friends & Neighbors viewpoint.

The Unique Personalities of Dogs

At the Humane Society of the Treasure Coast, we see all types of dogs coming in and out of our shelter. From small dogs, to big dogs, various breeds, weights and temperaments - we see it all. When it comes to understanding dog personalities, breed characteristics play a significant role. Each breed has been developed over generations for specific tasks and environments, which influences their behavior, temperament, and social interactions.

For instance, according to the American Kennel Club, Labrador Retrievers are known for their friendly and outgoing nature. They thrive on human interaction and are often great family pets due to their gentle demeanor. In contrast, Border Collies exhibit high intelligence and energy levels, making them excellent working dogs but also requiring ample mental stimulation and exercise.

The American Kennel Club also states that breeds like the Shih Tzu tend to have a more laid-back personality. They are affectionate companions that enjoy lounging with their owners but can also display stubbornness during training sessions. Similarly, Dachshunds possess a unique blend of curiosity and independence; while they can be playful and loving, they may also exhibit a stubborn streak when it comes to obedience.

Additionally, the environment significantly impacts a dog's behavior. Factors such as training methods used by owners, daily routines, and even household dynamics can shape how a dog expresses its personality. Understanding these elements can help pet owners better interpret their dogs' actions and responses.

At the Humane Society of the Treasure Coast, we always take a dog’s breed into consideration for both shelter dogs and public dogs who attend our training classes or other various programs. Each dog is an individual with their own unique personalities.

Many of the shelter dogs come in as mixed breeds, but we can usually tell by their personality traits, quirks, and looks what type of breed they may be. We then train and advise potential adopters accordingly.

We also get a lot of bully breed mixes (American bulldogs, Pitbull’s, American Staffordshire Terriers, etc.) at our shelter since this breed is the most misunderstood. What many do not realize is that one of the most notable characteristics of a bully breed dog is their loyalty. They form strong bonds with their families and have a very playful nature. Their intelligence also plays a significant role in their suitability as family pets; they are quick learners and respond well to training, which helps in establishing good behavior.

If you or someone you know is interested in adopting a dog, please make sure to do your research first so that you can make the best informed decision for your household. We have plenty of dogs to choose from who are looking for their forever homes. Please come visit us!

Frank Valente's opinions are his own and may not reflect Friends & Neighbors viewpoint.

Why has fluoride become so controversial?

Even though the current administration is talking about removing fluoride from our water sources this debate is not new.  

Let’s start at the beginning... How did we end up having fluoride added to our water supply in the first place?  In the early part of the 20th century dental decay was a big problem.  Many people were walking around with dental absences, loss of teeth, and infections which left many with no teeth at all. 

Sometime in the 1930’s researchers realized there were some areas in the country that had much lower incidences of dental problems and it was discovered that those areas had naturally occurring higher levels of fluoride in the water and the soil.  They also realized that people who were getting too much fluoride had white spots and flecks on their teeth... a condition called dental fluorosis. 

There is also a condition called skeletal fluorosis which is a disorder of bones and joints from ingesting high levels of fluoride.  This is not seen in the US but can be seen in other countries that have naturally occurring very high fluoride levels in their water. 

In 1945 Michigan was the first state to start fluoridating its water to help prevent cavities and dental decay.  It eventually spread to the rest of the states and now over 30 countries add fluoride to their water supply.  It is hailed as one of the biggest public health achievements in the 20th century.

So, what is considered a safe level?

The WHO recommends a maximum level of 1.5mg per liter. In its guidelines, it says the level is aimed at creating a middle ground where tooth decay is minimized, but the risk of dental fluorosis and skeletal fluorosis is low. 

There are many countries such as Japan that do not fluoridate their water as they feel people can get similar benefits from using fluoride toothpaste.

The controversy arose back in 2010 when a study was published in the prestigious journal of JAMA Pediatrics which found that IQ levels were slightly lower in three and four-year-old children whose mothers had higher measures of fluoride in their urine when they were pregnant.

In addition, we now know that only 50% of the fluoride ingested is excreted by the kidneys.  The remainder can accumulate in the bones, and more importantly in the pineal gland which is a part of the brain that is responsible for melatonin production. 

In 2016 the CDC published a study showing Fluoride exposure may contribute to changes in sleep cycle regulation and sleep behaviors among older adolescents in the US.

In addition, the NIH found that if Fluoride is added to water that contains aluminum, then aluminum-fluoride complexes will form. Aluminum fluoride complexes have the potential to interfere with many hormonals and some neurochemical signals

It appears fluoride can be a double-edged sword. In low levels it is obviously beneficial in reducing dental cavities, which is still a major public health concern. At high levels it can cause many adverse effects including neurotoxicity,  decreased IQ and effects on sleep.

Currently the US, Canada, Australia, Ireland, and Chile continue to fluoridate their water, but many other countries have stopped this practice including Italy, Germany, France, Sweden, and Switzerland. 

If you live in an area where fluoride is no longer in your water, it seems you can still get a similar benefit from using fluoridated toothpaste. 

Michele Libman’s opinions are her own and may not reflect Friends & Neighbors viewpoint.

The Price of Paradise: Martin County's Crossroads Amid South Florida's Economic Pressures

  While South Florida is renowned for its sun-soaked beauty and booming development, its residents are feeling the sting of rising economic pressures - from climbing property taxes and skyrocketing insurance premiums to the broader cost of living.  And yet, Martin County, nestled just north of Palm Beach, stands as a relative haven - at least for now.

With a slightly lower cost of living than major urban centers like Miami, Fort Lauderdale, Boca Raton, and the rest of Palm Beach County, Martin County has become a magnet for service workers and middle-income earners being priced out of their former cities.  Stuart, the county seat, is seeing a quiet migration of Floridians seeking relief from inflated rents and unsustainable property taxes, hoping to maintain a decent quality of life.

However, this affordability advantage is quite fragile these days...

Property taxes across Florida have surged - up nearly 50% in some areas since 2019 - and while Martin County remains more moderate, rising property values and population growth could trigger steep hikes unless managed carefully.  Meanwhile, homeowners across the Treasure Coast are not immune to Florida’s insurance crisis.  Annual premiums are approaching unaffordable levels, driven by climate risk, legal claims abuse, and insurer pullbacks.  For many residents, property insurance now rivals or exceeds their mortgage payments.

Add to this the ripple effects of trade tariffs - such as the 17% levy on Mexican tomatoes taking effect in mid-2025 - which may seem distant but will increase grocery bills and squeeze small businesses already contending with higher wages and inventory costs.

In this environment, both Stuart and Martin County must be proactive.  Sustained job growth is essential - not only to provide opportunities for its growing population but also to stabilize the tax base and ensure upward mobility.  New business development, infrastructure investment, and support for local entrepreneurs are no longer optional as they are survival strategies.

The challenge is clear: maintain the affordability that draws people here, while building the economic engine that allows them to stay.

If Martin County fails to attract strong business investment and smart long-term planning, it risks becoming the next domino in South Florida’s affordability crisis. But if it succeeds - by championing both livability and growth - it can model a path forward for the rest of the region.

Will Stuart, Florida and its leadership rise to the occasion, or simply absorb the pressures its neighbors have failed to contain? The answer will define its future…

Andy Noble’s opinions are his own and may not reflect Friends & Neighbors viewpoint.

A Local Study in Yin and Yang

As a young adult, I was fortunate to spend four years in Japan.

My travels allowed for a course or two each year at the University of Maryland’s Asian Division. I took full advantage—Japanese history and culture. My foreign language was Japanese. My transcripts are pretty unique.

Yin and yang have always intrigued me. At its core, the Tao echoes Genesis: darkness and light from a singular beginning, void becoming form. The form fills the void—and vice versa. At the very least, it’s an interesting alignment.

Lately, I’ve been studying tai chi with Sifu Dimitri Mougdis at his Internal Arts Institute. It’s been miraculous for my back. Moves I expect to hurt provide relief. Yin and yang.

Dimitri has “figured it out” as we often have to do in Martin County. He runs his dojo during the week and you can enjoy his gyros at the Green Market on Sunday mornings.

Last night I was in his dojo after spending the day touring Indiantown. Impressive businesses are choosing to expand there. This, from the same quiet Indiantown whose big economic development news was once its first McDonald’s? Indiantown incorporated because Martin County wouldn’t let them be who they wanted to be. Yin and yang.

I moved to Stuart in 2004 and have always felt welcomed. I had visited in the 1990s, when downtown felt like a ghost town. This was around the time the Duany plan was approved. As an outsider, I couldn’t see the spark. Stuart had potential—but no energy.

Our bank was downtown in 2004, so I quickly became active in the City. Duany was well implemented by this time.  Downtown was full—but fragile. Shops were open—but struggling. Saturdays were slow and every store on Osceola Street was closed on Sunday. The man in black would have described it as our “silent Sunday sidewalk.”

The Downtown Business Association had one burning question then: “How do we convince businesses to open on Sundays?” Stuart Mainstreet cooperated and they created “Rock’n Riverwalk” to bring people downtown. A limited performance became a permanent series. Much of today’s weekend energy came from this small spark. Dimitri’s opportunity to sell gyros to support his family is rooted in this spark. Yin and yang.

Growing up in Florida, I’ve always welcomed new neighbors. I don’t really have a reference point for the “whatever exit” descriptions, but over the decades I’ve found friends from New Jersey, Pittsburgh, Long Island, Chicago and Boston. Along the way also came great neighbors from Cuba, Puerto Rico, and Jamaica. While Mom never liked “those yankies(sic),” some of the people I enjoy the most are straight from the heart of New York City.

My brother-in-law moved here from Connecticut ten years ago. He complains about traffic and wants growth to stop. I like him and I’m glad he’s here. Yin and yang.

Bill West’s opinions are his own and may not reflect Friends & Neighbors viewpoint.

It’s Summer Camp Time!

The summer is upon us!  While the summer months bring with them a slower pace, excitement for many about trips and vacations and time with family and friends, do you know that for some populations, summer can be a time of great anxiety and uncertainty because some services also slow down or take a break?  This can mean, for many of our friends and neighbors, a change to needed supports.

For us at Helping People Succeed, we pay close attention to this, particularly when it comes to our youth services.  In both our Behavioral Health and our Successful Futures (services to those with disabilities) areas, we intentionally stand in this summer gap to ensure children with mental health needs, families with case management needs, and youth with disabilities all receive programming to support them.

We often hear people talk about the “summer slide” referring to youth losing ground in reading and math skills over the summer months, and it is important to support summer programs that help to alleviate that slide.  But, I urge you to think about other sorts of “summer slide”, for example, mental health summer slide.  For many of our youth mental health clients, their therapy occurs at their school during the school day as this is easier for families and ensures accessibility, safety, and integration into the school day.  But what happens when school is closed for months at a time over the summer? 

This is why we host summer camps with a therapeutic focus to ensure that not only academic slide is considered, but also the social-emotional and mental health needs of youth.  Our camps provide licensed therapists, case managers, and teachers every day to ensure our campers have their wholistic needs met over the summer, all while having fun.  Our camps ensure kids who sometimes have difficulty succeeding at more traditional summer camps have a place to feel safe, supported, and encouraged, all without a drop in much needed services.

And how about youth with disabilities?  Summer can also be a struggle for families as they adjust to their child being without their normal routine.  Our Career Camps are a great option for any child with an IEP or 504 to have a sense of routine and individualized support all summer while focusing on learning the skills needed to both secure and then maintain a job!  Career Camps are available for those age 14-21.

Fliers on both camps are included and we encourage you to spread the word and to consider a donation to support our work to keep all of our youth, especially those who are often overlooked, be safe, supported, and serviced this summer!

Kara Stimpson’s opinions are her own and may not reflect Friends & Neighbors viewpoint.

Thank you to everyone in Martin County who donated food as part of the National Association of Letter Carriers Annual Food Drive that happened on May 10th. This drive is a nationwide event, and is the largest single day food drive in the country. Our gratitude also goes out to all of the volunteers and staff at House of Hope who worked at local post offices, in trucks, and at our warehouse packing, loading and unloading all of that food. Special thanks to all of our dedicated local letter carriers and post office employees for another amazing year. It was a great day for House of Hope and our community, with over 57,000 pounds of food collected.

In addition to the fantastic results, the timing of this annual drive is truly ideal. As we approach summer, many local businesses slow down. For House of Hope, that is not the case. Factors such as seasonal employment, schools being closed and with that the loss of free and reduced breakfast and lunch for students, and hurricane season all lead to a spike in need across our community. Annually we distribute about 1.2 million pounds of food across the area through our four food pantries and through our network of food bank partners. All of our services are always no cost to our clients and partners.

Although the Letter Carriers Food Drive is a great start to summer, we are always in need of more food and toiletries. If you are part of a church, business or group that would like to conduct a food drive to help us, please visit us at www.hohmartin.org/food-drives for details.  Although the majority of our food is donated from food partners and local supporters, we do purchase food as well. We spend about $300 each month on fresh milk, about $800 each month on items to prepare boxes of nonperishable foods for homebound seniors, and about $3,000 monthly on meat for our pantries and our meal prep programs for clients experiencing homelessness. Contributions toward our food program help us to provide a balanced variety of fresh and healthy options for those we serve.  At House of Hope, food is an important part of improving the health and well-being of our clients. We know that healthy children are better learners and healthy adults are better earners.

Once again, thank you to our supporters for the impact that you have on our mission and our community. It is with your help that we are able to empower our community to overcome hunger and hardship. If you would like to learn more about how to get involved, or if you or someone that you know would benefit from our services, please visit us at www.hohmartin.org.

Thank you for helping us to grow hope in our community.

Rob Ranieri’s opinions are his own and may not reflect Friends & Neighbors viewpoint.

Every day, the creative, dedicated, and industrious professionals that I’m honored to lead as president and CEO of the Boys & Girls Clubs of Martin County remind me of a simple truth: In life, no one achieves anything of significance all by themselves.

BGCMC benefits greatly from the efforts of our staff, the wisdom of our board, the generosity of our donors and our partnerships across the community.

Among our most important partners is the Martin County School District. With nearly a thousand daily members and 6,000 more young people directly impacted annually by our programs, BGCMC is the county’s second largest youth services provider behind the district. We overwhelmingly serve the same young people and team up on how best to maximize positive outcomes.

For the last six years, we’ve operated the local chapter of AmeriCorps, a national service program. Coordinating with the district, at its peak we stationed mentors in all five county middle schools and four elementary schools where students struggled with academic and attendance challenges. AmeriCorps members also performed anywhere from 35 to 50 community service projects over that time. Over the last years, they averaged more than 57,000 service hours. 

Unfortunately, due to recent federal budget cuts, the local chapter is coming to a close.

We’re saddened by the loss of the program, which produced significant improvements in literacy rates, math and science scores—as well as overall behavioral matters. The data show AmeriCorps mentors helping up to 90 percent of elementary students improve their literacy skills and nearly 80 percent of middle-school students improve in literacy and math. At some schools, nearly eight in 10 students saw their reading levels rise from interim level 1 to level 4.

We hope to continue building on these results through our other partnerships with the district, such as:

• Managing Reading Buddies, where Stuart Middle eighth graders read weekly to third graders from J.D. Parker Elementary;
• Handling publication of Kidsville News, a fun family newspaper that’s an extension of our literacy efforts;
• Filling backpacks with school supplies annually for 1,500 students in need;
• Operating the FAA-approved commercial pilot drone certifications program at Martin and Jensen Beach high schools with plans for South Fork in the fall;
• Providing programming and training with virtual reality goggles at Martin and South Fork high schools, where the technology immerses students in the field conditions of careers such as automotive, aviation maintenance, manufacturing, construction, health sciences and more;
• Organizing, collecting and wrapping more than 3,000 presents and meals for children and families in need every holiday season;
• Overseeing and implementing the beloved Character Counts! program in all schools;
• Running culinary programs at Stuart Middle and Clark Advanced Learning Center as well as skilled-trades programs at Indiantown High School.

AmeriCorps was inspired by the late President George H.W. Bush’s emphasis on renewing a sense of national service and launched by President Clinton’s 1993 National Community Service and Trust Act. Some of the most impressive people I’ve ever met took the AmeriCorps oath to “bring Americans together to strengthen our communities.”

For a modest stipend, they performed community beautification projects and ensured vulnerable young people showed up to school, learned to read, improved at math, and took comfort in knowing someone cared about them and believed in them.

Knowing the nature of such national programs, we look forward to its eventual return. But in the meantime, our commitment to serving even the Martin County children not in our clubs is not—thanks to our district partners—going anywhere.

Keith Fletcher's opinions are his own and may not reflect Friends & Neighbors viewpoint.

The U.S. House of Representatives, Ways and Means Committee released their proposed Real Estate and small business related tax reforms. The National Association of Realtors, business owners and homeowners are pleased with the draft legislation. Here is a summary:

Qualified Business Income Deduction (Section 199A)

• The draft bill retains, makes permanent, and increases the QBI deduction from 20% to 23%.
• This deduction benefits citizens who are classified as independent contractors or small business owners.

State and Local Tax Deduction (SALT)

• The SALT deduction cap is tripled from $10,000 to $30,000 for households earning under $400,000. However, the bill does not eliminate the current-law marriage penalty. Thus, single filers and married couples filing a joint return both can deduct a maximum of $30,000 in state and local taxes.

Individual Tax Rates

• The current lower individual tax rates are made permanent and indexed for inflation, aiding taxpayers and improving affordability for prospective homebuyers.

Mortgage Interest Deduction (MID)

• The draft preserves and makes permanent the MID at its current level, maintaining a key tax benefit for homeowners and supporting housing market stability.
• There had been concern MID might be reduced or eliminated as a budget offset.

Business SALT and 1031 Like-Kind Exchanges

• The draft bill protects Section 1031 like-kind exchanges, which are often erroneously regarded as a tax loophole.
• It also includes no changes for most businesses deducting state and local taxes (sometimes referred to as "Business SALT").
• While the bill does provide limits in state-level business SALT workarounds for certain high-income professionals (e.g., law firms, hedge funds, consulting businesses, and other services), the provisions do not appear to impact real estate professionals.

Additional Positive Tax Provisions for Real Estate Economy

• Child Tax Credit Increased to $2,500 (2025–2028)
  • Temporarily raises the child tax credit through 2028 and then indexes it for inflation starting in 2029.
  • The child tax credit supports families and could help with housing affordability.
• Permanent Estate and Gift Tax Threshold Set at $15 Million (Inflation-Adjusted)
• No Top Tax-Rate Increase
  • The proposed 39.6% top rate was removed from the bill.
• Low-Income Housing Tax Credit (LIHTC)
  • Key provisions from the LIHTC Improvement Act will be included to support affordable housing development.
• Restoration of "Big 3" Business Tax Provisions
  • Full expensing of research and development (R&D)
  • Bonus depreciation
  • Fixes to interest expense deduction limits
• Immediate Expensing for Certain Industrial Structures
  • Applies to structures used in manufacturing, refining, agriculture and related industries.
• No Change to Carried Interest Treatment
• Opportunity Zones
  • Renewed with revised incentives to encourage targeted investment, including in rural areas.

As a Realtor, homeowner and small business owner I am hopeful that this great beginning will follow through to the final legislation.

Attached is the statistics for Martin County, single family homes through March 2025.

John Gonzalez’s opinions are his own and may not reflect Friends & Neighbors viewpoint.

Weather

It doesn’t matter who you are, how much money you have, or what you do for a living, there is one thing that none of us have any control over, the weather. We are very fortunate to have many talented and professional meteorologists in our local area to prepare us for the upcoming weather and report what has occurred. But they cannot truly predict the weather or control it.

Weather is a major factor in Florida since we plan so many events outdoors. Recently, Palm City’s first Music in the Park was rained out. This past week, the Palm City Chamber of Commerce had to cut their 30th Annual Golf Tournament short due to rain. We have not had any rain in months, yet here it came during the tournament! Each of us needs to be understanding of these occurrences.

As we approach June 1st, the beginning of the 2025 Hurricane Season, we all have concerns. Growing up in Martin County since 1974, we never worried about hurricanes. In 1979, David came right over Jensen Beach. I remember going outside in the “eye of the storm.” Then we didn’t think about hurricanes again until 1992 when Hurricane Andrew caused so much destruction in Dade County.

Life changed for many of us in 2004 with the arrival of back-to-back storms, Frances and Jeanne. This was the first time two hurricanes hit the same place in the same season. Weren’t we lucky??!!

I was teaching Kindergarten at the time, so I coordinated with the Martin County School District to have our students write thank you letters to the out-of-town power companies that came to assist after Frances. And then here comes Jeanne, and I was one of the last people to get my power back! I remember sitting in my classroom with many anxious 5-year-olds and the assistant principal coming in. He asked the students how they were doing and how things were at home. One of my little angels said, “Don’t ask Ms. Campbell because she still doesn’t have power, and she is cranky about it!” They were 100% correct.

It was quite amazing to hear such young children talking about generators, flashlights, and having enough supplies.

We should all learn from those youngsters. As we prepare for this year’s Hurricane Season, make sure that you are as prepared as possible for anything. Sadly, last year we learned firsthand about the devastation from tornadoes, which can often accompany hurricanes.

Check with your insurance agent and keep plenty of medication handy. Plan for your pets and check in with your neighbors so you can work together to be safe. Be sure to make a list of important items and follow the protocols of our local meteorologists, law enforcement, and governmental agencies.

Missi Campbell’s opinions are her own and may not reflect Friends & Neighbors viewpoint.

It is May 5th and this month’s theme for the surf fishing column sounds like a broken record.

Slime weed, Sargassum weed, dirty water, and lots of wind continue to hamper our surf bite. The long-awaited spring pompano run has fallen flat on its face as schools of these guys are showing from Daytona to Jacksonville. We have lost so many days this spring due to our terrible conditions it appears as if the main schools got by us on days, we could not wet a line.

Hobe Sound is still holding some pompano but the ratio of throwbacks to keepers keeps getting larger. This situation normally signals the tail end of the run, and the calendar is marching on. The whiting and croaker bite have showed signs of going and the months of June and July are the peak months for those tasty fish.

Light rods and Bloodworm and Shrimp scented Fishbites tipped with a small piece of shrimp will be the baits of choice. As the water continues to warm look for the big jacks, snook, and tarpon to make their showings as they chase the croaker and glass minnows in that near shore trough.

A cooler with plenty of water and Gatorade will be a necessity as we get closer to June. Staying hydrated will be as important as bending a rod and early morning and late afternoon will be the time slots to hit the beach.

Remember the Snook season will close on June 1 and this fishery will become catch and release until September 1. These great fish spawn during the summer so if you do target them please release them in a timely manner so they are healthy and can spawn.

The last safety factor I want to bring to everyone's attention is our summer lightning and thunderstorms. These storms develop quickly so if you hear thunder or see lightning close by, please get off the beach.

Good luck this month and catch em up. 

Paul Sperco’s opinions are his own and may not reflect Friends & Neighbors viewpoint.

Why Everyone Needs an Estate Plan—Regardless of Wealth

A common misconception is that estate planning is only for the wealthy. In reality, it’s essential for everyone, regardless of income, age, or family size. Estate planning isn’t just about what happens after you pass; it also ensures your wishes are honored and your loved ones are protected if something unexpected happens while you’re still alive.

Even modest assets—a home, a car, family heirlooms—deserve thoughtful planning. Without an estate plan, the state determines who inherits your property. That means people you care about could be left out, and personal items could end up in the wrong hands. Estate planning is about keeping control and ensuring your values are respected.

It’s Not Just About Money

In Florida, dying without a will or trust triggers a legal formula that doesn’t account for personal relationships or intentions. An estate plan ensures that even sentimental items, like a grandfather’s watch, go to the right person. It helps maintain peace within families by preventing disputes and misunderstandings.

Protecting Your Family

If you have children, an estate plan allows you to name a guardian of your choice. Without one, the court decides who cares for them, which can be a lengthy and stressful process. For those caring for someone with special needs, planning tools like a Special Needs Trust can provide financial support without jeopardizing access to benefits like Medicaid.

Avoiding Probate

Probate in Florida can be time-consuming, costly, and public. But with tools like living trusts, POD (payable-on-death) accounts, and joint ownership, you can bypass probate for many assets. This keeps your affairs private, reduces legal fees, and spares your loved ones added stress during a difficult time.

Preventing Family Conflict

Grief often intensifies emotions. Without clear instructions, families may argue about inheritances, sometimes causing lasting divisions. A written estate plan minimizes confusion and protects relationships by outlining your wishes with clarity.

Planning for the Unexpected

Estate planning also addresses situations where you’re alive but incapacitated. A power of attorney gives someone you trust the authority to manage your finances, while a healthcare directive outlines your medical wishes. Without these documents, your family may need to go to court to gain decision-making power, an added burden during a crisis.

Protecting Your Legacy and Privacy

Estate plans can shield assets from creditors, reduce taxes, and preserve more of what you’ve built for your family. They also offer privacy, avoiding the public exposure that comes with probate. Trusts and beneficiary designations are powerful tools for keeping sensitive matters confidential.

There’s No Time Like Now

Life is unpredictable. A basic estate plan provides peace of mind and a foundation you can adjust over time. Whether you’re starting fresh or updating an older plan, taking action now is one of the most caring and responsible steps you can take for your future and your family’s security.

Gene Zweben’s opinions are his own and may not reflect Friends & Neighbors viewpoint.

Mental Health Awareness Month 2025: Building Strong Foundations for Youth

May is Mental Health Awareness Month, a time to recognize that mental health is essential to overall well-being at every stage of life. This year, the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) is focusing on the theme:
“Mental Health is Health.”

Each week in May highlights a different population, and Week 2 (May 4–10) is dedicated to “Building Strong Foundations for Children’s Mental Health.” This focus is especially important in Florida, where access to youth mental health care remains a challenge.

Mental health in childhood lays the groundwork for lifelong well-being. Early support helps children to build resilience, develop healthy coping skills, form strong relationships and succeed in school and beyond.  Yet, despite the benefits and great need, many children face barriers to care.

In Florida 1 in 7 children has a diagnosed mental health condition but only 53% of those children receive treatment.  Children and families often struggle with challenges including long wait times for appointments, insurance limitations and continued stigma around mental health.  These barriers can delay care until a child is in crisis. That’s why early intervention and accessible services are critical.

What You Can Do

SAMHSA encourages everyone to take action:

• Talk openly about mental health with children and teens
• Support local programs that provide early intervention
• Advocate for policies that expand access to care
• Share resources using the hashtag #MHAM2025

At  Tykes & Teens we are responding by offering a  Walk-in Mental Health Assessment Center for youth. This Assessment Center is generously funded by Impact 100 Martin.  This assessment services provide same-day access to care, helping families get support when they need it most.  Since August, 2024 we have seen over 200 youth on a same day basis, ensuring they get care immediately.  The Walk-In Assessment Center is open 10am-6pm M-F @ Tykes & Teens, 900 SE Ocean, Suite 340, Stuart, Florida.

This May, let’s commit to building strong mental health foundations for our children. Because when we support their mental well-being, we strengthen our entire community.

Anne Posey's opinions are her own and may not reflect Friends & Neighbors viewpoint.

Scamming our Seniors: The Lowest of the Low

Scammers are getting better and better at fooling people and ripping them off in clever and devious ways.

Unfortunately, they often target senior citizens. Why? Because they assume older adults may be more trusting, less tech-savvy, or simply more likely to pick up the phone.

From fake sweepstakes and bogus tech support calls to emails claiming to be from Social Security or Medicare, these scams can be incredibly convincing—and costly.

At the Council on Aging Martin County, we find ourselves working almost daily with seniors who have been scammed. Sadly, we can seldom help them recover what they’ve lost, even when we involve law enforcement.

There are ways to protect ourselves and our seniors:

• First, if something sounds too good to be true, it probably is. No one is giving away money or prizes without a catch. Always be skeptical of unexpected phone calls or emails, especially if they ask for personal information, payments, or access to your computer.
• Never give out your Social Security number, bank info, or credit card details to someone who contacts you out of the blue. Government agencies like the IRS or Medicare will never call to demand payment or ask for personal info over the phone. If in doubt, hang up and call the organization directly using a number you trust—not one they give you.
• Talk to someone you trust. If you get a suspicious message or phone call, run it by a family member or friend before taking action.
• Consider taking advantage of call-blocking services and keeping your computer and devices updated with the latest security software.

If you care for a senior, pay attention to anything that seems a bit off with their finances. We need to help protect our seniors, intervene when necessary, and report scams to law enforcement, the sooner the better.

Marty Jacobsen, Deputy Regional Director of Seniors vs. Crimes, a state program, will join us at the Kane Center on June 3 during our Hurricane Preparation Expo to bring us up to date on the scams making the rounds in our community and more ways to protect ourselves and each other. The program is free, and we urge you to join us.

Scammers are clever, but you can be even smarter!

Karen Ripper's opinions are her own and may not reflect Friends & Neighbors viewpoint.

Prioritizing Minds and Futures: May is Mental Health Awareness                        Month                                                         

Each May, we observe Mental Health Awareness Month—a national call to break the silence, end the stigma and prioritize mental well-being.  As we reflect on the importance of mental health, it is imperative we place special focus on the needs of children and families who face unprecedented challenges and pressures in today’s world. 

Mental Health isn’t just a personal issue—it’s a community imperative.  Children today are navigating a complex landscape of academic demands, social media pressures, economic uncertainty and in many cases, trauma or instability at home.  The pandemic intensified these challenges, exacerbating feelings of isolation, anxiety and depression.  According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, one in five children experience a mental health disorder in a given year, yet far too many do not receive the care they need. 

Within 24 hours of accepting a child at the Tilton Family Children’s Shelter, a master’s level therapist is assigned to work with the child.  At Hibiscus, we specialize in trauma-informed care for children who have experienced abuse or neglect.  Our experienced therapists provide compassionate, evidence-based treatment to help children heal, grow and thrive in a safe and supportive environment. 

Hibiscus Children’s Center also operates a community mental health program and serves more than 600 children and families annually on the Treasure Coast. 

When children struggle, entire families are affected.  Parents and caregivers are often left without adequate support or resources.  Waiting lists for mental health services can stretch for months, and even when care is available, barriers like cost, transportation and stigma can prevent families from accessing help. 

At Hibiscus, we believe that therapy should meet you where you are—literally.  We offer personalized, compassionate outpatient counseling for children and families in the comfort of their own homes, schools or familiar community settings.  Our therapists specialize in child and family therapy, bringing expertise, empathy and real-world solutions right to your door.  We work on the whole family to build stronger relationships, healthier communication and lifelong coping skills. 

Investing in children’s mental health means investing in their futures.  Early intervention can change the trajectory of a child’s life, improving educational outcomes, social development and overall well-being.  Mental health is health.  Just as we would not ignore  a child’s physical illness, we cannot afford to neglect their emotional and psychological needs. 

The well-being of our children shapes the well-being of our communities.  If we want a healthier, more resilient society, it starts with ensuring every child and family has the support they need to thrive—not just in May, but every day of the year. 

For more information about Hibiscus Mental Health Services or to schedule an appointment, please visit us at HibiscusChildrensCenter.org or call (772) 340-5750, ext. 170. 

Matt Markley's opinions are his own and may not reflect Friends & Neighbors viewpoint.

Camp Spark 2025 – Martin County PAL

Looking for a summer camp for your child that goes beyond games and crafts? Camp Spark 2025 is where purpose meets passion. This isn’t your average day camp—it’s a trades-inspired experience packed with real-world learning, leadership development, and hands-on skill-building that empowers youth for life.

Camp Spark is open to boys and girls ages 11–14 and focuses on everything from law enforcement and fire training to career skills, athletics, and mentorship—all in a safe, structured environment led by positive role models.

New this year: Culinary fun meets culture with Italian cooking and pizza-making, giving campers a hands-on taste of the culinary world while learning teamwork and creativity in the kitchen.

• Only 3 weeks left this July, with limited spots each week
• 8:00 AM – 3:00 PM daily (lunch included)
• Just $45 for an unforgettable growth, grit, and guidance week.

This is your child’s chance to explore future career paths, build confidence, and develop life skills that matter, without ever feeling like they’re in a classroom.

Register now at www.martincountypal.org or reach out to info@martincountypal.org for details. Let’s make this summer count—one spark at a time!

THE MCDAVID GROUP CHARITIES DONATES $400,000 TO AMERICA’S HEROES SCHOLARSHIP FUND

Housed at the Community Foundation for Palm Beach and Martin Counties, Fund Supports the Educational Dreams of Families of Fallen Law Enforcement Officers

West Palm Beach, FL (May 8, 2025) – The McDavid Group Charities has contributed a generous $400,000 grant to the America’s Heroes Scholarship Fund at the Community Foundation for Palm Beach and Martin Counties. America’s Heroes Scholarship Fund was created by The McDavid Group Charities to support the families of fallen law enforcement officers. Specifically, the fund ensures that the children and spouses of fallen law enforcement officers can pursue higher education without financial barriers.  The Community Foundation is a nonprofit organization that leads partnerships with donors, nonprofits, and community members to solve the region's chronic and emerging issues.

The scholarship, which is nationwide, was funded through The McDavid Group Charities’ annual Golf for Cops Gala, held this past December at Trump National Golf Club in Jupiter. Proceeds from the event provide long-term educational support to families who have endured unimaginable loss in service to public safety. The organization's vision extends beyond immediate assistance, focusing on creating lasting impact through education and comprehensive family support.

"Every dollar raised represents more than just financial support – it's an investment in futures and a promise to these families that their loved one's sacrifice will never be forgotten," said Tanya Barrett, Executive Director of The McDavid Group Charities and surviving spouse of fallen Virginia State Trooper Mark Barrett. "We're not just helping students attend college; we're enabling them to build the futures their fallen parents dreamed of for them."

The McDavid Group Charities distinguishes itself through comprehensive survivor support, including:

• $40,000 in guaranteed education funding over four years for each eligible student
• Counseling and support programs offered through C.O.P.S. (Concerns of Police Survivors)
• Ongoing advocacy for enhanced educational benefits for survivors nationwide

Jim McDavid, Founder & President of The McDavid Group Charities, added: "These brave men and women in blue who rise each morning do so not for glory or financial gain, but from a profound calling to serve and protect their communities. Every day, they step beyond their thresholds facing the unknown, uncertain if they'll return home to their loved ones. If we truly wish to invest in our future, we must support the children who have made the ultimate sacrifice—those who have lost a parent in the line of duty. Their resilience deserves our unwavering commitment."

“We are proud to partner with The McDavid Group Charities in honoring and supporting the families of fallen law enforcement officers,” said Danita R. DeHaney, President and CEO of the Community Foundation for Palm Beach and Martin Counties. “Their unwavering commitment to these families’ futures is both powerful and inspiring.”

The Community Foundation’s Scholarship Program, now celebrating its 40th year, offers need- and merit-based scholarships to graduating seniors enrolling in college, university, trade, or vocational programs. Since 1985, the Foundation has awarded nearly $18 million in scholarships through more than 3,200 individual awards. In 2024 alone, 117 scholarships totaling $1.3 million were awarded.

To learn more about the America’s Heroes Scholarship Fund, please visit yourcommunityfoundation.org/give-now/ or click here.

About Community Foundation for Palm Beach and Martin Counties 

Community Foundation for Palm Beach and Martin Counties is a nonprofit organization that leads philanthropy locally. The foundation provides charitable expertise and vehicles to increase the investment options on behalf of individuals, family foundations, and corporations. Since 1972, the foundation has distributed nearly $250 million in grants and scholarships aimed at closing the area’s opportunity gaps. With its vast network of donors and nonprofit partners, the foundation supports initiatives that improve youth and education, economic opportunity, thriving communities, and crisis preparation and response. Learn more at yourcommunityfoundation.org.  

About The McDavid Group Charities

We support the families of fallen law enforcement officers with a focus on the educational aspirations of children and spouses of fallen law enforcement officers. We are dedicated to providing hands-on programming and counseling to help surviving families survive and thrive while raising awareness for the men and women who died in the line of duty. Over the next 10 years we strive to be the leading resource for educational support for these families by endowing $25 million to support our America’s Heroes Scholarship Fund. In a world where line-of-duty deaths are tragically common, we envision a future where the families of fallen officers face no financial barriers to higher education. Learn more at https://www.themcdavidgroupcharities.org.

Humane Society of the Treasure Coast to celebrate 70th anniversary Birthday Paw-ty with adoption specials

Who: Humane Society of the Treasure Coast

What: 70th Anniversary Birthday Paw-ty

When: Saturday, May 17, 2025 - Celebrations are from 11 a.m.-2 p.m but the adoption specials are from 10 a.m.-5 p.m.

Where: 4100 SW Leighton Farm Ave, Palm City

Adoption specials (Hoping to get 70 animals adopted for the 70th anniversary!):

• All puppies under 1 year are $70.
• All dogs over 1 year have a waived adoption fee.
• All kittens under 1 year are $30.
• All cats over 1 year have a waived adoption fee.
• All critters (rabbits, guinea pigs, etc) are $17.

All of the adoptable pets are vaccinated and spayed/neutered prior to adoption. Dogs, cats and rabbits are also microchipped. The adoption special is honored at the humane society’s main shelter and thrift stores only. These adoption specials are made possible by Transmarine Chartering, Inc.

For more information: Visit the website at https://hstc1.org/Post/70th-Anniversary-Birthday-Paw-ty or call the main shelter at 772-223-8822.

Background information:

On May 17, 1955, the Humane Society of the Treasure Coast was born, and since then, thousands of lives have been saved. The public is invited to help the shelter folks celebrate at its birthday paw-ty as they honor an unforgettable 70-year journey of hope, love, and second chances. A coffee truck by Sorelle Coffee Co., a taco truck by Morocco's Tacos, swag bags, cupcakes, raffles and more will be available.

May is Leave a Legacy Month:
A Legacy of Hope for Children in Need  

Treasure Coast - Every day, hundreds of nonprofit organizations quietly shape the heart of our community—providing vital services, preserving dignity, and creating pathways to brighter futures. For more than 40 years, Hibiscus Children's Center has stood as a beacon of safety, healing, and hope for children who have experienced abuse, neglect, and trauma. Our mission is clear—but we cannot fulfill it alone.

While Hibiscus receives some government funding, it covers only a portion of the care and support our children need to thrive. The generosity of compassionate individuals who believe that every child deserves to feel safe, loved, and valued, is essential to fulfilling our mission.

One of the most powerful ways to ensure this mission continues long into the future is through Planned Giving.  Planned Giving allows donors to make a lasting impact by including charitable contributions in their estate plans. Whether through a will, trust, charitable gift annuity, or other financial vehicle, planned gifts create a legacy of kindness that extends far beyond one lifetime. During this month of recognizing Leave a Legacy, we invite you to consider leaving a legacy for children and families for generations to come.  

Planned Giving is not only an act of generosity, it’s also a smart financial strategy. Many planned gifts can provide a lifetime stream of income to the donor or their family, yield tax benefits including reduced estate and capital gains taxes, enable larger contributions than might be possible during one’s lifetime, and ensure peace of mind that your values will live on through charitable impact.

Each year, Hibiscus serves more than 1,600 children and families with critical services—safe haven, mental health counseling, prevention and intervention programs, educational services, and career training.  Your planned gift helps ensure these vital services will be here for future generations in need. It can provide safety where there was danger, hope where there was despair, and opportunity where there was none.  When you include Hibiscus in your estate plans, you become part of something greater - a legacy of compassion, protection, and transformation for vulnerable children.

Michelle King, CDO, shared, “Let your lasting gift tell a story of hope. Partner with us to build a future where every child can dream again. Together, we can create a legacy of hope, healing, and resilience for children who need it most.”

To learn more about Leaving a Legacy, please visit HibiscusChildrensCenter.org or contact Michelle King, CDO, at (561) 452-5791.           

Melissa Jaques Named Winner of Topaz GEM “Going the Extra Mile” Award for Foster Parents

Port St. Lucie — Communities Connected for Kids is proud to announce that Melissa Jaques is the latest recipient of the Topaz GEM – Going the Extra Mile – Award for her exceptional dedication and compassion as a foster parent. Melissa and her husband, Robert, exemplify what it means to go above and beyond for youth in care, particularly in navigating complex placement situations with empathy, transparency and collaboration.

The Jaques family recently welcomed into their home a teenager with a history marked by repeated relationship disruptions and the loss of several potential permanent connections, said Josie Kirchner, CCKids’ Director of Clinical Services. Kirchner nominated the Jaques for the award.

“What began as a transitional weekend visit quickly blossomed into a powerful connection, and the teen did not want to leave,” Kirchner said. However, there were strict – and formalized - rules that had to be followed due to past behavior that threatened the teen’s safety.

The family reached out to the professionals involved in the teen’s life to fully understand his unique needs, and sat down with the youth to explain the reasons behind the new rules surrounding internet use, social media, and messaging.

With compassion and mutual respect, the Jaques worked with him to co-create a plan tailored to his needs. Together, they developed a personalized, practical agreement that maintained safety while still allowing access. The teen took ownership of the process, designing a strategy for how the Jaques could help him stay on track and make safe, responsible choices in the digital world.

“Receiving the GEM Award is an incredible honor for both of us,” Ms. Jaque said. “It means so much to be recognized for doing what we’re passionate about -supporting children and families in foster care.

“Every child deserves to feel safe, loved and supported, and we’re grateful for the opportunity to be part of that journey together.”

The Jacque’s were recognized with a personal phone call from CEO Carol Deloach, a plaque and a gift card. Communities Connected for Kids is the Lead Community Based Care Agency overseeing foster care, adoptions and protective services in Okeechobee and the Treasure Coast. For more information, please visit us at www.cckids.net.

Spring Highlights at Banner Lake Club
Banner Lake Club is busier than ever. If you haven't heard, we have had lot's going on.

Tiny Cubs Has a New Home! On April 22, Banner Lake Club proudly held a ribboncutting ceremony for our brand new modular classroom—the new home for one of our Tiny Cubs 3-year-old classes.

This addition allows us to serve two separate 3-year-old classes, creating more space and opportunities for early learning. The modular features two bathrooms, a spacious classroom area, and a kitchenette with cabinets and a sink—everything we need to give our youngest learners a great start!

On April 9, we proudly participated in Impact100 Martin. Thanks to our Outreach Director, Chenelle Weaver, we secured transportation to make it easier for local seniors to be involved around the community and Hobe Sound. Banner Lake Club will soon have a handicap accessible van that seats 10 with room for an eleventh person in a wheel chair.

On April 8, we hosted our Saddle Up Gala at the Pelican Club with 260 guests in
attendance. The evening featured live music by Blaine’s West, a fun dance troupe that got everyone moving with the Electric Slide, and a high-energy auction led by celebrity
auctioneer Sebastian Clarke. Our own students also stole the show with 2 fantastic line dancing performances!

Other Past News
• Traveling Nutrition Garden with House of Hope
• Cognizant Classic in the Palm Beaches and Birdies for Charity Program
• Kennedy Space Center Field Trip April 17th
• Modular Grand Opening at the Banner Lake Early Learning Center April 22nd

Future News
• Graduation for 3rd Grade Step Up and VPK
We’re proud to share that Banner Lake Academy is expanding! Starting this fall, we will be adding 4th grade, followed by 5th grade in Fall 2026. This exciting growth allows us to provide our students with a complete elementary school experience, continuing our commitment to nurturing young minds right here in the Banner Lake community.

The Boys & Girls Club has built a beautiful facility on school district grounds abutting Martin Luther King Blvd behind Stuart Middle School.

It is a real asset to the community, and many kids from East Stuart and throughout the north county take advantage of the facility. Here is the problem. They want to have liquor at their fundraisers and affairs. That is against school board policy, their lease, apparently state law, and the City of Stuart ordinance.

The Boys & Girls Club claims to need this exception in order to raise the funds to maintain the facility. Then why did they sign the lease with that clause in it? Did they believe it was a problem to deal with later?

From my reading of the state statute, there are some questions as to whether the state statute forbids the sale and use of alcohol. While the city does do so, the city manager believes an exception can be made in their case. That leads to school board policy and lease modification to determine the things that need to be changed.

 The issues raised such as insurance liability for the district should not be such a big deal because of sovereign immunity caps. To be safe, purchase more insurance and have the tenant pay for it. The real problem is perception and precedent.

If someone is hurt or killed coming from an event where alcohol is served, what kind of message would that be? You either have zero tolerance for alcohol or not. Both School Board Members Moriarity and Russell sound as if they are in favor. The question asked should be whether it is hypocritical to tell kids and school personnel not to drink and then allow it for adults at special parties.

This is a tough call for the board to make. I don’t know if we are best served by throwing out the policy or allowing the Boys & Girls Club an exception. Remember the Arts Council is ready to open their version of a café and wedding place. I don’t see how you make an exception in one case and then not do so in another.

For some time now, I have suggested that the dream of rehabilitating the new Martin Arts’ Center at the old school board building was in the $20 million range to complete.

Boy was I wrong! CEO Nancy Turrell told the school board that all in about $30 million would be needed which would include soft costs and furnishings. They have so far raised $350,000 which includes grants. The organization began their dream back in 2018 according to their presentation. In 7 years, about $50,000 a year has been raised. At this rate, the building will be several hundred years old before enough money is accumulated.

I looked at their latest filed IRS Form 990 (attached here ). There doesn’t seem to be any secret stashes of cash anywhere. If Nancy is thinking that somehow donations are going to do it, nothing up to this point is leading me to think in that direction.

And I can’t believe she can think the Feds, Tallahassee, or local government money will be available. In this time of massive federal layoffs and the defunding and elimination of the arts bureaucracy in Washington, what is the likelihood anything is going to come our way. Little old Stuart is not about to receive millions in grants.

The Martin County School Board is being disingenuous to continue with this charade. Their teachers and other personnel can’t afford apartments or homes in the county, and this would be their chance to help. Not by rehabilitating an old useless building but by constructing a new one where that now stands. They wouldn’t even have to do it themselves. There are several organizations that would be happy and with the expertise to work with them to move this idea forward.

Government needs to be more practical in its pursuit of goals. One goal should be affordable housing for its employees. Not continuing with this 7-year-old odyssey that is a delusional dream.

You can see the presentation here 

Commissioner Tidikis wanted an item on the agenda to have a discussion regarding the manager putting in a job application elsewhere without notifying the commission. Tidikis believed Daniels was doing something in violation of his contract. Daniels placed it on the agenda calling it a manager contract violation. Tidikis wanted it labeled a breach of his contract.

You could immediately see where this was going, and it was nowhere good. Manager Daniels had once again placed an application for a new job, this time as Palm Beach Administrator. His contract calls for him to notify the commission when he does apply for another job. Daniels failed to do so when he applied for the Juno Beach manager vacancy earlier this year.

Daniels said he withdrew from consideration for the Palm Beach opening, but as of May 12th he was still listed as a contender. He said he didn’t realize he needed to notify the commission. However, whether it was an oversight or intentional would be immaterial since that wasn’t a reason for him to be fired according to his contract.

Both Mike Flaugh and Jackie Thurlow Lippisch stated that both thought Daniels was very conscientious. Former Mayor Don Weiner, who hired the first town manager, said that Daniels was by far the best. According to Weiner, he is being paid a fraction of what he is worth.

That is the crux of the matter, Daniels took the job knowing full well what it paid. He is definitely underpaid, and I don’t believe anyone on the board doesn’t know that. Sewall’s Point’s problem is that it refuses to tax itself enough to operate. They’re continually going to the state and federal government for grant money to fix their roads, sewars, and infrastructure is wearing thin.

Unlike Indiantown or even Stuart, they are not Jupiter-Island wealthy, but Sewall’s Point homeowners can certainly afford to pay more for their own upkeep. This same mentality is shown in all aspects of their budget. Underpaying the town manager is just more of the same.

It appears the only commissioner who truly realizes it is Mayor Kurzman and to a lesser extent Fender and Mayfield. Daniels should notify the commission every time he seeks outside employment as is stipulated in his contract. There is no getting around it. At the same time, the commission needs to offer him a fair pay package, or this job search will continue. At some point for both Daniels as well as the town.

At any time, the commission may let him go for any reason. If the reason is not listed in his contract as rising to an offense, they will have to pay severance…until contract expiration when it is their call and his.

Tidikis made a motion to reprimand the manager. It died for a lack of a second…this time.

 Moving Forward Quickly

Dipaolo and the council are moving the village forward…not by baby steps but by giant ones.

The council is not shy about trying things that will bring business to Indiantown. They have drafted an ordinance that will do just that. The Indiantown Council wants to give ad valorem tax exemptions. Their ordinance mirrors the county’s language which is mostly contained in state statutes.

While Stuart’s commission is doing everything it can to kill economic development and make Stuart even less viable, Indiantown has decided to increase its number of taxpayers and jobs.

The Supervisor of Elections, Vicki Davis, gave the council what it would take to hold a special election. It is required that the voters approve the tax incentives. There are currently 2,115 registered voters. It was decided that the measure would be voted upon in an all-mail ballot to be held in August.

Dipaolo also wants to buy several parcels located adjacent to Booker Park to extend the park. At the same time, he would be looking to reroute 169th Street so that children playing would not have a roadway to cross. Some parcels affected may be problematic because they are owned by the CRA and the school board.

There is a lot of roughly an acre across from Post Park that the mayor would also like to buy. The village will then build a community center with exercise equipment which could also serve as a meeting space.

The council seemed to agree with the ideas and gave the go ahead for appraisals and negotiation with the various owners. You can see the proposed purchases on the maps here 

Martin County and the village have apparently worked out terms to have a heritage festival in Timer Powers Park for the next 3 years. It will consist of an AG component, different entertainment performances, a small midway, and rides. It will be held in the third week of January.

Could this be the start of what will come to be known as the real fair in Martin County? Don’t be surprised as the Martin County Fair Board becomes more and more irrelevant.

Indiantown is really looking like a place business and people want to be. Much of that is the availability of open land. There is also a willingness of Indiantown’s government to make things easier for expansion. The one driving force is Mayor Carmine Dipaolo.

But Dipaolo has a trait that will not serve him well if continued. He threatens to quit if he doesn’t get what he wants. The most recent example was his request to attend school to understand the MPO better.

The MPO is the planning body for transportation in the county. Understanding the complex federal and state rules and regulations takes time. It can be daunting.

When I was a member, I did go to the 3-day school. It was a crash course. I believe it is absolutely necessary to attend to fulfill your role on that board.

Dipaolo told the council that he would quit the MPO if he wasn’t guaranteed that the council would reappoint him to that board for the next few years. The council members assured him that they recognized his value and would.

This is not the first time he threatened to quit if he didn’t get his way. At some point, someone is going to take him up on that offer. And it won’t matter how much he is doing for the village.

People do not like ultimatums and guns to their heads. In his case, most threats are unnecessary since he is retired with plenty of time, appears to have monetary resources, and is a tireless advocate. The other council members cannot devote the amount of time he does, and they know it.

However, in the case of the MPO school, all he had to say was unless the others believed he should stay on the MPO board, he wouldn’t go to school, pay for the hotels and meals himself, and invest as much time as he has up to this point. The council would have gladly left that task to him.

A little unsaid is most times all that is needed.

In the last edition, we wrote about the global settlement of several lawsuits against various residents, property owners, the town, and Mayor Townsend.

At that time the settlement agreement was not yet available. It is now, and you can read it here 

This matter has tied the town up for several years with neighbors litigating against neighbors. It could be called a feud or civil war without the shooting. Whatever it was, it was not good for the town or residents.

The settlement seems to be one where everyone has their basic points being recognized, and the thing most important to each party has been achieved.

In most other places, things like that would not have happened because the legal cost would have been prohibitive for the litigants. Being rich gives a person the ability to let things become out of hand. Nobody would rather be poor than rich, but having money has its burdens too.

“The end of the world as we know it.”

Those words are a song by R.E.M., the phrase in countless movies and books. I think I first stumbled on the concept in the H.G. Wells novel, the War of the Worlds. He writes in his book, “the world as we know it will end.” The Apocalypse has been predicted since ancient times.

The “Book of Revelations” is also known as the “Book of the Apocalypse.”  It is the final book of the New Testament meaning the end of the Christian Bible. John’s revelation of a woman seemingly clothed by the sun, a dragon and the number 666 have been part of the Christian religion which predicts the end of times or is it foretelling the “Second Coming?”

Aldous Huxley wrote “A Brave New World” published in 1932 as a “negative utopia” he stated. I always thought Huxley, who was English, wrote the novel in reaction to the Great Depression. The English may have had it tougher than Americans during its depths. For one of the most explicit telling of what it was like to be poor during that time, read Orwell’s “Down and Out in Paris and London.”

In Huxley, individualism is stamped out of the inhabitants. Much as some of the inhabitants are on mood calming drugs the difference is that in Huxley’s book, everybody is as opposed to us today. “A Brave New Word” may be seen as a precursor to the “Handmaid’s Tale” by Margaret Atwood. While reproduction in Huxley’s novel is done in a lab, in Atwood’s it is through the natural way with rape and coercion.

We enter dystopian periods periodically. I believe this is one of them. Many Americans are bewildered. Another subset may be realizing that things are not quite what they seem.

George Orwell’s “Nineteen Eighty-Four” and “Animal Farm” are much more political in my opinion than the more sociological novels mentioned above. Some of us may look to literature to help explain today. Others may decide to read the Bible to gain insight…especially “Revelations.”  A few will look to history for comparison.

And somehow, we will pass through this period as we did the Depression, World War II, Vietnam, and the 1960s.

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