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Stacey Hetherington is more than a commissioner.

She is a mother, businesswoman, Martin County Republican Committee Woman, churchgoer, and avid community activist. Long before she ran for elected office, she was part of the Martin County Community. She was born and raised in Indiantown with a family that goes back generations in Florida.

For the past couple of years, she has put together a calendar celebrating women in our county. I learn something new every time I look at it. Let’s face it, women are what holds society together.

Over the next four issues we will be highlighting the entire calendar. This edition will cover January, February, and March. Take a minute to read what the Martin County Difference is. It isn’t about land or politics or policy but about people. These 12 women, one for each month, is what we are all about.

Stacey is a well-rounded person.

Thanks, Stacey, for allowing Friends & Neighbors to highlight and celebrate your calendar and the women it highlights.

About the #OneToughMother Calendar

The #OneToughMother Calendar is a community-driven project created to honor and celebrate extraordinary women who demonstrate strength, resilience, compassion, and unwavering dedication to our children and  our community. The idea began during Stacey Hetherington’s 2018 county commission campaign, when she was referred to as “#OneToughMother.” The phrase stuck and has since grown into a meaningful way to recognize remarkable mothers and maternal figures throughout the community.

Each year, women are nominated by friends, family members, and community members who want to shine a light on the quiet strength, sacrifice, leadership, and love these mothers show every day. Many of the honorees have faced personal hardships or tragedy, yet continue to move forward with grace and determination while uplifting those around them.

The calendar serves as a tribute to the women who nurture, advocate, lead, and inspire — not only within their own families but across the wider community. It is also a reminder that motherhood takes many forms, and that strength often shines brightest during life’s most challenging moments.

October – Nicoletta DeRosa (Honored Posthumously)

Nicoletta DeRosa is honored posthumously as a beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and matriarch whose legacy lives on through her family. Born in southern Italy, she and her husband built a life rooted in faith, family, and hard work, eventually establishing successful restaurants in the local community. Known for her deep devotion to her family and her strong faith, Nicoletta nurtured generations with love and strength. The enduring admiration of her children and grandchildren stands as a testament to the extraordinary mother she was.

November – Angelina Perez

Angelina Perez is a community activist, youth sports advocate, breast cancer survivor, and Indiantown Village Council member. A first-generation Guatemalan American and dedicated school employee, she works tirelessly to support youth, families, and educators. Alongside her husband, she co-founded the Warriors Soccer Club to provide opportunities for local children. Angelina also organizes numerous teacher and staff appreciation efforts each year. Her leadership, resilience, and passion for service define her as a #OneToughMother.

December – Mary Beth Peña

Mary Beth Peña is a compassionate educator, nurse, and community advocate who serves as Health and Social Services Coordinator at the Hope Center for Autism. Often described as a “mother to many,” she has dedicated her life to serving others through healthcare, education, and advocacy. A former Peace Corps volunteer and longtime champion for equity and wellness, Mary Beth works tirelessly to support families and promote healthier communities. Her nurturing spirit and lifelong service make her a fitting final honoree for the year.

The #OneToughMother Calendar continues to celebrate the extraordinary women who shape our community with strength, compassion, and resilience. Each honoree represents the countless mothers and maternal figures who inspire us every day.